I always thought that I might retire from any form of sexuality by the age of 40 and just become a dignified older person.

Even from a very early age I knew I didn't want to miss out on anything life had to offer just because it might be considered dangerous.

A lot of music you might listen to is pretty vapid it doesn't always deal with our deeper issues. These are the things I'm interested in now particularly at my age.

I'm 36 and if I met a woman of my own age and married her I'd also be marrying her former life her past. It might be OK for some people - I don't want to judge it or anything - but it's not for me. It would destroy my creativity.

No matter what age you are or what your circumstances might be you are special and you still have something unique to offer. Your life because of who you are has meaning.