It seems I have a hard time being attracted to someone unless I respect what they do on some level. Otherwise I would feel disdain for them. Which is not always pleasant in a relationship. Sometimes it's fun though.
When you think about it we actors are kind of prostitutes. We get paid to feign attraction and love. Other people are paying to watch us kissing someone touching someone doing things people in a normal monogamous relationship would never do with anyone who's not their partner. It's really kind of gross.
When one has love for God one doesn't feel any physical attraction to wife children relatives and friends. One retains only compassion for them.
We say no to lots of things that would please us. I would like to punch people every now and then but I don't. I would like to have something for free rather than pay for it. I would like to skip to the front of the line... I don't mean to brush aside the taste of meat which is a powerful attraction. But its power is not without limit.
Plant the seed of desire in your mind and it forms a nucleus with power to attract to itself everything needed for its fulfillment.
It is said that power corrupts but actually it's more true that power attracts the corruptible. The sane are usually attracted by other things than power.
It is by its promise of a sense of power that evil often attracts the weak.
An American Idol is someone that has all the qualities that America thinks is positive attractive and alluring.
I believe that when you work on yourself you are attracted by different more positive beings.
The nerds are my favourite sort of boys - any guy with a passion - whether it be physics or film or writing or poetry even I think it's super sweet and it's very attractive for a female.