In every society in human history including the United States those in power seek to imbue themselves with the attributes of religion and patriotism as a way of getting greater support for their policy and insulating themselves from any criticism.
The aspects of patriotism that hush dissent encourage going along and sanction comfortable distancing and compliance with what is indecent and unacceptable... those aspects are too fundamental to ignore or gloss over.
There are those who wrap themselves in flags and blow the tinny trumpet of patriotism as a means of fooling the people.
Tolerance compromise understanding acceptance patience - I want those all to be very sharp tools in my shed.
The strong manly ones in life are those who understand the meaning of the word patience.
I've worked so hard to eliminate the inner geek from my life. I suddenly realize I have no patience for those people who still have their geeks showing. Now I see why being 'normal' has been so important to me.
Only those who have patience to do simple things perfectly ever acquire the skill to do difficult things easily.
As for goals I don't set myself those anymore. I'm not one of these 'I must have achieved this and that by next year' kind of writers. I take things as they come and find that patience and persistence tend to win out in the end.
I am patient with stupidity but not with those who are proud of it.
I'm a parent especially when you've had the intense parenting the way I had. It's all in the bank. It's all in the great experience bank. Those are your secrets. That's the stuff that makes your work rich that's what you dip into.