I think to have the skill set and the ability to physically help others in matters of life and death must be incredibly empowering.
Crucial to understanding federalism in modern day America is the concept of mobility or 'the ability to vote with your feet.' If you don't support the death penalty and citizens packing a pistol - don't come to Texas. If you don't like medicinal marijuana and gay marriage don't move to California.
You show your vulnerability through relationships and those feelings are your soft spot. You need to have a soft spot.
My dad was an entrepreneurial businessman and maybe I got some of his ability.
I feel that marrying younger and being quite a young dad helped me with the stability of my career.
My mother's incredibly giving almost too giving at times. And my dad is a real logical person. He's got logic for every situation. They've been married for 24 years so there was that stability also. I really learned to think on my own at a very young age.
Often as a child you see someone with a learning disability or Down's Syndrome and my mum and dad were always very quick to explain exactly what was going on and to be in their own way inclusive and welcoming.
Even within the last three or four years I have a greater ability to communicate I think. I have more courage to show the stuff... And it does take courage.
In this work I have received the opposition of a number of men who only advocate the unobtainable because the immediately possible is beyond their moral courage administrative ability and their political prescience.
Success is that old ABC - ability breaks and courage.