A band is not a marriage. There are no oaths of allegiance. If you feel your life will be better served by splitting up the group you've got to do it - but of course it does cause problems.
I figure no matter how old you are it's always going to be your first marriage and no life experience is going to make you a better judge of who you should marry.
After 14 years it better be a real marriage you know? We do have a great time together. We are really lucky.
It is better to be unhappy in love than unhappy in marriage but some people manage to be both.
Marriage of attraction is a gamble anyway so you might as well marry into a family that is similar to your own and make that much less of an adjustment. But the 'love marriage' as it is called is equally common in India now. But it would be interesting to do a comparison of what would work better. Marriage is hard work and it is a gamble.
Sometimes divorce is better than marriage.
The rule with marriage is the less you talk about it the better as far as I can tell.
I think men who have a pierced ear are better prepared for marriage. They've experienced pain and bought jewelry.
Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway.
Marriage is a feast where the grace is sometimes better than the dinner.