I think that giving mindless praise is ridiculous. But I understand why parents do it. They want their kids to feel good about themselves. But parents are never going to teach their children true positive self esteem by praising everything they do.
I've come to understand that there's always something positive even in a negative situation.
I don't know why they're doing it. I have to assume that their motives are positive not negative. But they don't understand the severity of the problem in this state.
When children are very young you read them books that are positive to help them go to sleep. But there comes a moment when they begin to understand the difficulties of the world. They know there are problems and the books they read should reflect that not gloss over them.
My wife was the first romantic partner who understood both American and native parts of me - not so much the positive stuff but the damage.
I don't personally try to balance my work because I operate under the assumption that anyone reading or watching my stuff isn't having a particularly balanced day anyway. But negative attitudes just amuse me more than positive ones.
People don't really understand but having people stare and point and take pictures even if it is in a positive framework is quite isolating there's no two ways about it. You feel a little bit you know freakish.
People who talk about revolution and class struggle without referring explicitly to everyday life without understanding what is subversive about love and what is positive in the refusal of constraints such people have a corpse in their mouth.
You must not under any pretense allow your mind to dwell on any thought that is not positive constructive optimistic kind.
Politics is a field where the choice lies constantly between two blunders.