My mother was a professional sick person she took a lot of pain pills. There are many people like that. It's just how they are used to getting attention. I always remember she's the daughter of alcoholics who'd leave her alone at Christmas time.
This is the first age that's ever paid much attention to the future which is a little ironic since we may not have one.
As I grow older I pay less attention to what men say. I just watch what they do.