The summer before I went to culinary school my family wanted me to take a job on a movie to make sure that I was making the right decision. I think they hoped I would change my mind about culinary school.
I grew up in a family where the internalized understanding was that the kids were going to grow up into a better world. I worry because I don't think my kids are going to have that. The world is very scary. The world would be scary without the choices the current administration made but they just exacerbated it. And it ticks me off. I want my kids to have a good life.
My encounters with racism are sort of second-hand situations where I might be standing around with a group of white friends and someone makes a comment that they wouldn't make at my family reunion.
You might think that after thousands of years of coming up too soon and getting frozen the crocus family would have had a little sense knocked into it.
I would look at a dog and when our eyes met I realized that the dog and all creatures are my family. They're like you and me.
None of my actions have ever sort of been motored by the search for a husband or wondering if I was going to have a family someday or wanting to live in a really great house or thinking it would be really great to have a diamond.
'American Horror' is the debasement of the suburban family the way a lonely kid would have imagined it in the Seventies.
I have other obligations now - the show my family my life... though I know that without my sobriety I wouldn't have any of those things.
It never occurred to me that I wouldn't go to college and have a career - as well as a family - of my own. Both my parents but especially my mother encouraged me and led me to believe that it was possible.
For my own family I would always choose the makeshift surrogate family formed by various characters unrelated by blood.