I can only speak from my own personal experience being behind the camera and in front of it but every magazine cover you see is completely airbrushed.
I don't think I even knew how big we were at the time. It was mad. I gained a lot through East 17 and I'm grateful for being able to have that experience.
The amount of meetings I've been in - people would be shocked. But that's how you gain experience how you can gain knowledge being in meetings and participating. You learn and grow.
Most men are very attached to the idea of being male and usually experience a lot of fear and insecurity around the idea of being a man. Most women are very identified with their gender and also experience a tremendous amount of fear and insecurity.
But if somebody dies if something happens to you there is a normal process of depression it is part of being human and some people view it as a learning experience etc.
I understand now that the vulnerability I've always felt is the greatest strength a person can have. You can't experience life without feeling life. What I've learned is that being vulnerable to somebody you love is not a weakness it's a strength.
A leader who confines his role to his people's experience dooms himself to stagnation a leader who outstrips his people's experience runs the risk of not being understood.
I firmly believe that all human beings have access to extraordinary energies and powers. Judging from accounts of mystical experience heightened creativity or exceptional performance by athletes and artists we harbor a greater life than we know.
In order to experience everyday spirituality we need to remember that we are spiritual beings spending some time in a human body.
In a person who is open to experience each stimulus is freely relayed through the nervous system without being distorted by any process of defensiveness.