Tobey's a mellow cool guy. He's just a good guy. I know that's not the answer you want and I don't mean that as the political thing to say but he's a nice guy.
Mind you I've always been a very off-message type of fat broad one who gladly admits she reached the size she is now solely through lack of discipline and love of pleasure and who rather despises people (except those with proven medical conditions) who pretend that it is generally otherwise.