The idea of a soulmate is beautiful and very romantic to talk about it in a movie or a song but in reality I find it scary.
Marriage is miserable unless you find the right person that is your soulmate and that takes a lot of looking.
My husband and I are best of friends first and foremost. We fight like cats and dogs but never stay mad for long. I was lucky to find him he is in every way my soulmate.
If you age with somebody you go through so many roles - you're lovers friends enemies colleagues strangers you're brother and sister. That's what intimacy is if you're with your soulmate.