I've always been attracted to romantic secondhand clothes. But my style developed as I started going to these strange raves where everybody had these very definitive costumes.
Their very conservatism is secondhand and they don't know what they are conserving.
You have to like the present if not your life becomes secondhand if you think it was better before. Or that it will be better in the future.
Toxins love to get you while you're young. Lead mercury secondhand smoke and sundry other environmental nasties do a lot more damage when tissue is immature vulnerable and growing than when it's mature and comparatively fixed.