Nobility of spirit has more to do with simplicity than ostentation wisdom rather than wealth commitment rather than ambition.
I don't do marriage. I think it's incredibly naff. And I don't like vulgar displays of ostentation.
I'd love to be a saxophonist. I don't know why but I pretend I'm the saxophonist when I listen to music. I have about as much chance playing the sax as I do learning how to fly.