Women must pay for everything. They do get more glory than men for comparable feats but they also get more notoriety when they crash.
I think a responsibility comes with notoriety but I never think of it as power. It's more like something you hold like grains of sand. If you keep your hand closed you can have it and possess it but if you open your fingers in any way you can lose it just as quickly.
Reputation is favorable notoriety as distinguished from fame which is permanent approval of great deeds and noble thoughts by the best intelligence of mankind.
You get to be famous or have some notoriety and there are so many people who want a piece of you.
Let your family staff and friends know that you're still the same person despite all the publicity and notoriety that accompanies your position.