You look at the greatest villains in human history the fascists the autocrats they all wanted people to kneel before them because they don't love themselves enough.
There's not a lot of room anymore for what I call 'made-up' drama. The drama comes from real places now - marriage takes work and focus the kid stuff takes patience and commitment. And if you don't grow as people and as a couple within all of that then you've got some real drama.