The one who loves the least controls the relationship.
We fear the thing we want the most.
Some people drink from the fountain of knowledge others just gargle.
Courage is simply the willingness to be afraid and act anyway.
When you blame others you give up your power to change.
When it becomes more difficult to suffer than to change... you will change.
If we take science as our sole guide if we accept and hold fast that alone which is verifiable the old theology must go.