Theology in general seems to me a substitution of human ingenuity for divine...
Marriage like death is a debt we owe to nature.
I know not why there is such a melancholy feeling attached to the remembrance...
While your life is the true expression of your faith whom can you fear?
The only way you can have it all is by delegating all the running of the home to other people - which I don't ever want to do... So you do it yourself and it takes time and energy and effort. And if you give it the time it's profoundly enjoyable.